OMG it's nearly the end of August.
What even is 2020? The podcast has been out and proud for two whole months now and there are FIVE episodes in the ether. Ep 5 is the first in a TWO PART series "A SLIP OF THE TONGUE".
Part A: "WHAT'S IN A KISS?" OK, yes, we're still sexing it up for the time being - because we kind of ended the orgasm talk at the 'beginning'.
The fact is, because 2020 an Orgasmic Oddity (eps 1-4)ended with us focussing on the Vagus Nervous System and how it connects our brains to the pleasurable experiences available to us in the region of the face and upper body (from facial expressions and tactile sensations via lips, mouth, tongue and throat - especially through vocalising)which illuminates all other erotically responsive parts of the body - thereby opening up our concept of where and how orgasms are actually derived.
...and so, after I got all that off my chest, I figured, we may as well linger here and make out for a bit.
TBH I could linger in that headspace all day.
As I said in the podcast, KISSING is everything as far as I'm concerned. It's possibly one of the best ways for women to place themselves squarely in the drivers seat of the whole foreplay dealie. Are you feeling passionate? Tactile? Sensual? Mindful? Experimental? Say it in a kiss. If you are shy in speaking up and guiding your partner - (it is actually better to use your words) - you can still give very clear, sexy hints via your the way you mindfully engage your lips, tongue and breathing. Kissing is not just the doorway to sexual enjoyment. It's the foyer. And this foyer has a restaurant and a bar. Indulge yourself. There really is no hurry.
Kissing is the best possible way for human beings to really connect and tap into each other's energy. Kisses burn their way deep into our most primal core. If you are spiritually inclined, you could call kissing a sacrament. If you haven't yet heard me whisper sweet nothings to you about kissing, you might want to catch ep 5 before moving on to... a different kind of kiss!
Episode 6. PART B: "A CONSUMER'S GUIDE TO ORAL SEX" drops on Sept 1. CLICK HERE to be taken to a YouTube link where I chat more about the nostalgic origins of this story. An Oral History if you will.
Suffice it to say, if you want to get better at the oral arts, you could definitely do worse than to listen to this podcast! It's as entertaining as it is educational, if I do say my self - but be warned: IT'S VERY EXPLICIT! I pushed my own comfort zones putting it together, but hey. That's the Eloquent in the Room's M.O. Getting uncomfortable with the things that we really should be normalising.
Oh...and besides the educational stuff, Seinfeld fans get to get their geek on.
Then BEFORE WE KNOW IT... it will be September. Sept 16-23 is BISEXUAL PRIDE month and Sept 23 Is Bisexual Visibility Day. A chance for us highly misunderstood individuals to express our solidarity. PLEASE TAKE PART IN MY BISEXUALITY SURVEY HERE. During the month of September my Instagram will be going off with lots of info about famous Bi-Role Models.
Speaking of which, stay tuned for my FIRST PODCAST INTERVIEWS - coming up Sept 15. Upcoming discussions will be centred on sexuality and gender identity. LET THE INTERSECTIONALITY BEGIN.
If, you are new to this website and podcast, firstly HELLO! Please, follow me on the social links provided. And don't forget to rate and subscribe to the podcast on your podcast platform of choice - especially iTunes. This is how the podcast has a better chance of being found by people who would like to find it. The number of listeners is growing gradually - and I'm thrilled to bits that it has been heard in as many as 15 countries so far (even if some of those, were just one or two listeners) it's just...beyond awesome to know that this kind of connection is even possible.
A big thanks to the listeners who have contacted me with wonderful feedback and great questions. Remember, this podcast is for everyone, so please drop email, my social DM's and my 'anonymous questions LINK' are all here for YOU to tell me about the kind of topics that intrigue you. It doesn't have to be about sex. There's tons more awkward life stuff for us to chew over. When it comes to the emotional stuff we deal with in our lives, I think the conversations that you feel most awkward having, end up being the most important ones you will ever have.
So...let's not hold it in any longer.
Life whizzes by so quickly...I mean seriously...have I mentioned that IT'S THE END OF FUCKING AUGUST ALREADY?
Just to make us all feel better, enjoy the following GIF. Not only are we killing a bunch of metaphors with many stones, vis a vis, kissing AND oral sex with this one, we also gots bb catz, bb!
Talk to you soon